Divorce is not always easy. Not only does it end a relationship, but it also raises a lot of emotional, financial, and practical questions that can be hard to deal with, especially when kids are involved.
One of the first things that many couples who are breaking up have to decide is whether to hire a lawyer, go to mediation, or do both. The right answer depends a lot on your situation, but knowing what each role can do will help you make a smart choice and move on with the issue.
What’s the difference between a solicitor and a mediator?
A family law solicitor can give you legal advice, protect your rights, and, if necessary, represent you in court or during negotiations. They only act for you and make sure you understand what your choices mean.
A mediator, on the other hand, does not pick sides. Their job is to make a productive, safe space where people can talk about how to divide up money, property, or child care in a way that everyone agrees on and works for everyone. A mediator won’t tell you what to do, but they will help you talk to each other and find things you both agree on.
When mediation can be useful
When both partners are willing to talk honestly and come to a compromise, mediation is often a good choice. It usually takes less time and money than going to court, and it can help you and your ex-partner stay on good terms. This can be very helpful when it comes to kids.
The courts also want people to try mediation. Most people have to go to a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM)N before they can ask for a child or financial order, unless one of the exceptions applies.
That being said, mediation isn’t the best option for everyone. If there has been domestic violence in the past, if there is a clear power imbalance between you, or if one party refuses to work together in a positive way, the process may not be right for you and you may need help from a lawyer.
Why Getting Legal Advice Is Still Important
It’s still important to get the advice of a lawyer even if you choose mediation. A solicitor can explain your rights and responsibilities at the beginning, check that any agreement you reach is fair, and write or approve consent orders so that your arrangements are legally binding. If mediation doesn’t work or isn’t right for you, a lawyer will also help you through court and protect your interests.
How Ison Harrison Can Help You
Our Family Solicitors at Ison Harrison bring both knowledge and understanding to every case. We know that every family is different, so we take the time to listen before showing you your options. Our main goal is always to protect your future and that of your children, as well as your own health and well-being. We offer everything from a free or fixed-fee consultation to personalised advice on mediation, negotiation, or litigation.
If you’re not sure whether to hire a lawyer, try mediation, or do both, we can help you make that choice with confidence and clarity. For a private consultation, call our Private Family Department. We’ll walk you through the process, step by step. Call us today on 0113 284 5000 or email family@isonharrison.co.uk
